I recently watched this video with my boyfriend and his best friend. “The cinematography is so cool looking!” “Jake Gyllenhaal is so bad ass!” “This song is awesome!” were things that were coming out of everyone’s mouths. 

And I agreed, until I realized that I’m a huge wet blanket. Just kidding, I agreed until I realized that we were watching a video about a psychopathic murderer who brutally kills young men and women, and is addicted to drugs. All set to a heart pumping, flashy song. 

This got me thinking… why do we think that’s “cool”? Maybe it’s things like this that are the problem in our society that’s riddled with violence and misogyny? Maybe watching a very popular, handsome actor portray an insane murder that goes around killing people isn’t the best thing to idolize? 

Again, as an artist I can totally see why this video is rad. But maybe that’s the problem? 

Oscar Pistorius: MURDERER

Okay, I’m mad. And before you go saying, “Of course you are, feminazi!! Go take some Midol and call my when you’re not pregnant!! BEER.”  Let me just say that I don’t really even consider myself a feminist.  I love women, I love men, I love black people, and Jews are okay too. I mostly believe that people should ALL be treated equally and rather than sit around complaining about it, why don’t we go out and prove them wrong? I might be wrong in that, but it’s just the way I feel, with one exception: all 65 year old, white, republican men scare me to death. Please keep them away from my reproductive rights!!

I’m mad because of last week’s Time Magazine cover story featuring Oscar Pistorious. For those of you who don’t know him, he was a sprint runner for South Africa and was the first double amputee to compete in the Olympics. That’s all great, good for him. However, on February 14th Oscar chose to shoot and murder his girlfriend. Here is the cover story:

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Notice anything missing? How about the words, oh, I don’t know, MURDERER?!??! How about calling him what he is instead of SUPERMAN or GUNMAN? Which, what the fuck does that even mean? AND THEN! Read the tag line below:

“Oscar Pistorius and South Africa’s Culture of Violence”

Yeah, cause it’s all South Africa’s fault that he CHOSE to SHOOT and MURDERED his girlfriend. 

Now, I realize that these are nit picky things. But THESE things show men that as long as  you are an athletic hero you can do whatever you want. You know, like O.J. Simpson, Tiger Woods, Michael Vick and Lance Arm- Oh wait, the only reason we vilify Lance is because he CHEATED at the sport he was a hero at. Lance Armstorng has be CRUCIFIED for cheating at a sport. He’s facing losing millions of dollars, and possible jail time for cheating. That’s it. Then this Pistorius guy brutally MURDERS his girlfriend and he gets the cover of time magazine calling him SUPERMAN. Oh, not to mention RELEASED on bail to await his trial at his cushy South African home. 

The article in the magazine is bullshit and I’d need another 20 pages to articulate my rage for it as well. But, I guess my point is that the media sends a message loud and clear to male athletes in powerful positions: You can do WHATEVER you want, just as long as you don’t cheat at the sport that we hail you as a god for.

The cherry on top for me is this photo: 

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This photo a) compliments him as a “symbol of South African hope and dissolution” and b) does not say what he is awaiting court proceedings for or what he’s been charged as, which is, a MURDERER 3) the photo holds him in high regard and almost god like with a spot light glowing around his head, you know, like Jesus. 

How many more, women, dogs and men need to die at the hands of a professional athlete before we change our magazine covers to reflect who they really are?

firstfamily:

Voice your support

This song is very special to me. I first heard it when I was 15 and going through some serious anger/family/emotional problems. It made me feel happy, how ever corny that sounds. It made me feel like someone knew what I was going through and that I wasn’t alone and I was going to be okay.  When you’re a 15 year old who feels so lost you sorta look for things to grasp on to.

It’s funny, because this song has followed me. And I’m not “one of those” who believes everything and their mom is a “sign” but this song is different. It pops up on the radio randomly when I need it the most. 

I’ve been going through a major transition over the last few months and it’s been tough on me, really tough, one of the toughest things I’ve ever gone through but I know that I made the right decision.  And I’m glad that I’m a person that can make those life decisions that get tough but make you better and stronger in the end.

I’ve been feeling a little down the last few weeks and I haven’t heard this song in about a year or so. It’s come on the radio twice in the last week and that makes my heart smile. I know I’m doing the right thing, I just need to keep at it and know that I’m not alone. 

everything will be alright. 

thehoulywoodreporter:

Jay-Z and “Ellen” riding the subway. Pretty cool.

This is awesome and made me smile. 

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I’m not ashamed to admit that this looks like me

I’m not ashamed to admit that this looks like me

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robhuebel:

CHILDRENS HOSPITAL STARTS BACK AUG 9TH AT MIDNIGHT.  SPREAD THE WORD…

Yay

funnyordie:

Matt Groening’s ‘Struggling Artist Magazine’
The Simpsons creator is ending his comic Life in Hell. Let’s distract ourselves from the sadness by admiring a gem from his archives.

awesome

funnyordie:

Matt Groening’s ‘Struggling Artist Magazine’

The Simpsons creator is ending his comic Life in Hell. Let’s distract ourselves from the sadness by admiring a gem from his archives.

awesome